| i saw this in a friend of mines xnga.. and you dont even know how much i agree with this...
Guy version:
Dear Girls (from us guys)...
Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
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It makes us feel SO secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
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Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.
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On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
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Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
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Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
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You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
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DONT flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.
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Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
But seriously sometimes looks ISNT everything alot guys who arent exactly "hot" will treat you the way you need to be treated
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" .......and actually mean it.
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:+:Some of the stuff I think is true but its not up there.:+: (or what i belive is true even tho other guys dont)
STOP SAYING YOU GUYS ARE FAT/UGLY OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT
most of you girls are so fuckin skinny its unbelieveable and you still think your fat... its disgraceful.. seriously
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if we wanna take you somewhere... walk you home... or even ask you to come out in front of your house even for just a second... COME OUT!!!
were saying this because we want to be with you until the very last minute...
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that last thing that it says up there.
LISTEN TO THAT!!! ITS SO FREAKING TRUE ITS NOT EVEN FUNNY!!!
IF THERES A GUY THAT ISNT TREATING YOU RIGHT DUMP HIS SORRY ASS!!!
HE DOESNT DESERVE A GIRL LIKE YOU!!!!
AND NEXT TO THAT... ITS NOT ALWAYS YOUR FAULT A RELATIONSHIP IS BROKEN!!!
SOME OF YOU GIRLS JUST ALWAYS SEEM TO BLAME YOUSELF FOR IT!!!
MOST OF THE TIME ACTUALLY ITS THE GUYS FAULT!! DONT BLAME IT ON YOURSELF!!!
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even if people are looking... just give your boyfriend a bigggg hug...
a guy doesnt always just want to make out... well not me anyways...
i always wanted a really really big introducing hug from my girlfriends...
when you see your boyfriend, and you havent seen him in a while...
just give him the biggest warmest hug you have ever given anyone
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also this is the last one that i can think of...
when you guys break-up or something...
try to talk to them.. even though its hard... this goes to both guys and girls...
the guy/girl WILL miss you... even tho its the worst relationship that can happen.. if the guy/girl really cared... she/he will miss you... so talk to him/her!!!
well this is what i think... yea... []Deace outtt |
